It’s not the shape of a woman’s body, her age, or her waist size that makes her look and feel sexy. It’s about the confidence she exudes. When a woman feels confident, she also feels happier and sexier. And who doesn’t want to be around a woman like that? There are a lot of factors that play into confidence and sex appeal, but below are some of our favorite tips.
Sweat it out
Exercising has many benefits. It can help you slim down, reduce stress, and make you feel sexier. Trust us, it’s science. Exercise stimulates your body to release endorphins, which give you a natural high and help you feel good. When you feel good, your confidence also improves.
Not only that, you’ll have an awesome sense of achievement as you power through that pilates class when all you really wanted to do was sit at home and eat chinese take-out.
Keep up a regular exercise regimen and you’ll feel like a sexy beast both inside and out.
It’s all in the eyes
When it comes to confidence and attractiveness, eye contact is a key player. Your eyes can express many different emotions in just one look. Maintaining eye contact is usually perceived as a sign of trustworthiness, friendliness, confidence and control. When making eye contact, throw in a smile or a smirk and watch others become putty in your hands.
TIP: Be sure to give those gorgeous peepers of yours a little umph with perfect eyebrows to frame them. If you’re here in San Diego, we can help you out with that part at our “Perfect-Eyebrow Consultation“.
Wax Instead of shave
It’s pretty much always “bikini weather” here in San Diego. There’s no better way to feel sexy and confident than showing off your freshly waxed legs in an adorable new sundress, or rocking that little red bikini after a Brazilian or Bikini Wax. Your smooth, bare skin will have you feeling more confident, sexy, and maybe a little frisky.
You might be thinking why can’t I just shave? We’ll tell you why: razor burn and nicks from shaving aren’t sexy. Not only are they painful and itchy, they’re also embarrassing. Unlike shaving, waxing doesn’t cause razor burn.
At Bare Elegance Waxing in La Jolla, we take the time and utmost care to make sure that your waxing experience is comfortable, easy, and done right. You’ll leave Bare Elegance Waxing feeling clean, sexy and confident from head to toe.
Flex your brain
Smart is sexy. A sharp, healthy mind is just as important as a beautiful exterior. Challenge yourself to find interest in new things, read books or watch documentaries on new topics, and engage in conversations with other intelligent people. The more you know, the more confident you’ll be.
Never underestimate the power sexy underwear can have on your confidence. It isn’t necessarily about having other people see them, it’s all about how they make you feel. Knowing you’ve got that little black lace number under your office clothes can make you feel irresistible, even in the most unsexy environments.
Showing off your new lingerie to your partner is also a thrill. Stripping down to that revealing Balconette bra and garter belt with thigh-high stockings will drive your man wild and make you feel sensual and beautiful.
So toss those ripped, faded granny panties you’ve had for five years and invest in some new skivvies. New bikinis, boy shorts, thongs, G-strings, or even basic briefs can make you feel gorgeous. Just be sure to wear the right panties for your outfit, because no one appreciates underwear lines.
Your body language is usually the first thing a person will notice about you, often via instinct. Our poses and postures typically reflect our mood and our level of confidence.
Check out your mannerisms. Stop slouching and crossing your arms and hold your head up high. If you make a conscious effort to appear confident, eventually you will begin to believe it and so will others. Confident body language can make all the difference between an average woman and a sexy woman.
Don’t try too hard
Seriously. Learn to be comfortable in your own skin. There’s nothing sexier than being truly comfortable with yourself. If you’re not, do something about it. Realize that you are an amazing, beautiful woman. Know your strengths and your assets and remind yourself of them every day. Follow your passions and surround yourself with supportive people. Complete confidence is a key ingredient of sex appeal.